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Sudden Proposal

Assalamu’alaikum gorgeous!

On Sunday, April 11th 2010, I got proposed. But it doesn’t like the regular proposal that couples usually going through.. <you know, with rings, bunch of close relatives, blablabla> hahaha.. Well actually it was supposed to be a “introduction” day between two families.Β  But somehow, after my bf’s dad had a good conversation with my dad, my bf’s family decided to “ask” my dad about proposing me for his son.Β  Wow, it’s kinda shocked us (me, and my parents), because we thought that “the proposal” will be discussed after both families know each other (at least not at the first time they meet..LOL)

When I ask my bf about it after his family got back home, he just say, “well honey, that’s my parents, when they feel sure, that you and your family are a nice, and religious family, they feel relieved and save to have a daughter in law like you, and to have a new relative like your family. They’re simple. And they trust me.” hahahaha… i was laughed, and very happy at the same time. So, from now on, we have to prepare for our upcoming wedding, which will be held insya Allah on XX-th (censored πŸ˜€ ) October 2010. Yup, the date is settled, for a practical reason. πŸ™‚

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Hari Minggu, tanggal 11 April 2010, saya dilamar. Tapi proses lamarannya bukan seperti kebiasaan orang Indonesia kalau mau meminang wanita, tahu kan yang datang ramai-ramai sekeluarga besar, bawa seserahan ini itu, tukar cincin, dll, hahahaha.. Sebenarnya saat itu lebih ke acara perkenalan antara dua keluarga. Tapi entah bagaimana, setelah Bapak-nya sang pacar ngobrol panjang lebar dengan Ayah saya, keluarga pacar pun memutuskan untuk “meminta” saya untuk anaknya kepada Ayah saya. Wooow, kagetnya luar biasa (terutama saya dan orangtua), karena kami mengira kalau “lamaran” akan didiskusikan setelah kedua keluarga kenal satu sama lain (yaaah paling tidak gak langsung saat itu juga siih) πŸ˜†

Saat saya tanya pacar tentang ini setelah keluarganya pulang, dia cuma bilang “yaaa begitulah orangtua saya yaang.. Kalau mereka udah yakin kamu dan keluargamu adalah orang baik dan religius, mereka langsung lega dan aman untuk memiliki menantu seperti kamu dan memiliki saudara baru seperti keluargamu. Mereka itu simpel. dan mereka percaya saya..” hahahaha saya pun tertawa dan senang. Jadi, mulai sekarang kami harus mempersiapkan pernikahan kami yangΒ insyaΒ AllahΒ  akan diadakan tanggal XX Oktober 2010. Langsung nentuin tanggal donk sekalian saking pengen praktissss… πŸ˜€

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Wasalamu’alaikum!

Ola Aswandi | Twitter @olanatics | IG olanatics

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